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A New York Escorts Confessions
Feast or Famine
I am seriously so overworked I can’t see straight.
It all started about three weeks ago. Coincidentally or weirdly or karma-icly—take your pick—one by one I lost a bunch of my regulars. One got transferred to Seoul. One decided to give his marriage another try. One said he needed to cut back on “extra” expenses, since he had been looking for a new job for four months and still hadn’t found one. And one just suddenly stopped calling. Maybe he talked to the other three?
Anyway, all of this made me feel terribly off-balance, as you can imagine. Sure I had actually managed to put money into my savings account despite overwhelming urges to hit all the summer sales with a vengeance. But that money was for buying an apartment or taking a trip to the South Pacific. Something dramatic. It wasn’t supposed to be for rent, or God help me, for something mundane like coffee.
The drop in income made me suddenly remember the realities of my past fashion rag existence. I thought of how back then I would NEVER take a cab. It could be four in the morning, I could be drunk, and sick and cold, but I would still take the subway no matter what. I felt like I simply didn’t deserve it any other way. I would bag my lunch instead of going out when I felt like it. And I never ever considered taking a real vacation.
Escorting was supposed to be my escape from all of that. And it has been. But the thought of losing my lifestyle kicked me into overdrive.
Usually I’m very careful about references and referrals. This time, though, I’ve gone out with everyone who contacted me. Two Thursdays ago I seriously had four different appointments within ten hours, which is just insane. I didn’t even care. I was determined to make up for the loss at any cost.
Working this much has it’s effects. My jaw has been killing me from smiling so much. My personality feels like it’s on overdrive. I’m talking faster and walking faster and I’m so completely wound up it takes me hours in front of the television just to get back to whatever normal is. I wake up in the middle of the night bolt upright thinking, “WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO?”. I know it’s unhealthy, but there’s a part of me that just can’t stop. I’m afraid if I start to say no, that all of it is going to go away again.
It does seem like some of these guys are heading towards being regulars. So maybe soon I’ll get back to that comfortable and familiar place where I didn’t think about it too much. Or maybe someone will ask me on a big trip. That always feels like winning the lottery.
Until then, will somebody please get it into my head that it’s okay to say no?
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Taking the subway isn't that bad. Having not so much money is also not the end of the world, is it?
Posted by Lydus on Jun 28 11:32AMThere's an old saying that says something along the lines of never getting to comfortable with life because it's not exactly a stable factor...and I think you've just totally proved that.
Maybe this is a sign that you should start branching out into other areas in your line of work. And Alexa, I'm saying this with a lot of love and no judgement, but how long are you planning on being an escort? It seems to me that escorting is kinda like life, in that it's not really all that stable. So maybe this is your sign that you should start thinking what you're gonna be doing in life once you hit 60 or 70...but knowing you, I know you're gonna figure it all out.
Posted by David on Jun 28 01:28PMWhen you had a regular job, you didn't "deserve" any extras, but now that your an escort you do. Seems like someone has self-worth and net-worth overly entangled.
Posted by adent on Jun 29 08:46AMEvery good contractor runs into this problem sooner or later, and every good contractor knows how to deal with it. Never say no--just raise your rates.
Say your current rate is $300/hr. Next person who calls, it's $350. The person after that, $400, then $450...the sky's the limit.
Eventually, your clients will throttle themselves back. You never have to say no, you'll get the workload you want, *and* you'll be making more money.
It works in the other direction, too. If you aren't getting enough clients, start quoting lower rates.
If a regular calls in, you can
- quote him your current top rate (could be major sticker shock)
- quote him a single increment ($350/hr)
- quote him your old rate (if you actually want to see him)
- schedule him out into the future at your old rate (Love to see you! How's a week from Thursday?)
Take care.
"My jaw has been killing me from smiling so much..."
Uh-huh. That must be why. ;)
Posted by L.G. on Jul 4 02:47AMPost a Comment

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Say 'No'?
Yes, it's okay to do that...but we all have things about our job that drives us nuts. So if you're at a place where you have to say 'yes' more than you'd like, remember there's always the 'fashion rag existence'...would that be any better?...I think Not!
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