Ouch!………good for you for not accepting the baggage…we all have enough of our own!

Wheelchair or no, he sounds like an angry jerk. Probably was "before the accident" too.

That's too bad, it sounds like he at one time had something going for him but has allowed the accident take away much more than the use of his legs. He laid a trap for you by not mentioning the wheelchair. Virtually anyone would be taken aback a bit in the position in which he put you. He clearly had his attack fully prepared, in the chamber, with the hammer back, ready to fire. Some of the providers I have known are "wheelchair accessable".

He used you as a pincushion for a problem that is his alone. The lovely thing about self-pity is that it is so sincere.

Life shovels shit on us and some people choose to live with the stink rather than find a way to remove themselves.

-G

GodDAMN what a jerk.
Someone should tell him about the manwhore on wheels who lives near me. I swear this man has a trail of women constantly following him around - if F would dump the sulking childish act he might learn that legs aren't everything when it comes to attraction.

I completely agree with what other people have said.

I have a deep amount of sympathy for this man -- I cannot imagine having to deal with what he has now been faced with.

But for him to treat you as he did, was simply uncalled for. I hope that your very classy handling (for which I commend you) of the situation helped pierce some of what he built up inside him.

Chair or no chair ... the guy behaved like a jerk. The really sad thing about that encounter is he is too wrapped up in his story to see that he was the problem, not you.

In a way, it's too bad the liason didn't come to the logical conclusion. Once done paying for his session, he might understand there is a very large difference between escorts and whores, especially in the fees charged to jerks...

I am sitting in the wheelchair as well. And what should I say - please excuse my French - he is an asshole.

To have an accident like this is one thing. To be rude or to make someone some kind of responsible for it is the other. Personally I have an different view on the things - doesn't he know what his handicap / accident has given him for life?

A change in life like this isn't just a fall - it's a rise as well. And you acted the right way, I probably would have given him a slap in the face.

Fun :-)

Sounds like before the accident he was probably a shallow, self-centered, ass. Stripped of teh abilities/ qualities he relied on to draw people to him and make himself feel like a person he became angry. He is sure people don't like him because they can't see past the wheel chair when the problem is there wasn't that much there to like before the accident. 2 lousy cents from Jeregano

Ok, so I know, I'm gonna go to hell for saying this...but Alexa...girl...the fact he was in a wheelchair?! That is just too funny! LMAO! I know, I know, but OMG, I can only imagine what was going through your mind when your eyes bestowed his Stephan Hawke like image...but yeah. I agree with everyone else...the guy was a total jerk. Too bad he couldnt get passed his disability to find out what a sweet gal you are...

I can relate. I'm a stripper. some guys(who usually are wealthy) just can't help but pin down others, so that they can satisfy some deep neurosis of theirs. at least this one had a wheel chair to blame.

Wow. Sounds like the fun night - not.

I'll echo everyone else's comments and say that you did the right thing by picking up the check and getting the hell out of there.

I'm meaner than you, though. I'd have given him a therapist's phone number and told him to call me once he'd been in therapy for a few years and made some progress.

Let's face it; before being black, white, crippled, old, gay, sick or whatever, we are human beings and basically human beings are jerks.
Jerks who were afraid of this guy for being in a wheelchair, jerks who celebrate what's different in this world as long as it's not in front of them, jerks like him who lash out at the world for the pain that they endured.
Sucks for him, maybe one day he can find people who care for him and not for what he possessed or used to be.
Until he realise he hasn't lost everything, no one should be is human punching-ball.(Nor after)

I guess it would have been uncooth to have locked his wheels and pushed him over.

Damn. I hate political correctness.

What a bastard..