Yiiiikes.

Some fucking people. Good move. You shoulda kept a B for the waste of your bloody time.

So funny how the fake decided to not only delete my post, but act on my suggestion. Who runs this website?

I guess your gut instinct is correct.

Can you trace how he found you?

I have to agree with "Fake" this doesn't even seem like the same person. The pen has changed hands.

You mean that it doesn't sound like Alexa's writing? Actually, I was wondering what was with all of the links and "celebrity/advertsising" style that the blog had taken on? I have always liked Alexa's blog, but there are an awful ot of links to sites that she never posted before and the posts sound nothing like her. Makes me wonder if she sold her rights to the blog so that it could generate advertising for other sites? You never know. I know that sounds corny, but I am not doing a very swell job of articulating right now, sorry! This post was the only one that actually sounded like her.

As one of the escorts which Alexa has chosen to display on the left sidebar of her blog, I can attest that she has not "sold her rights" to the blog. She and I had discussed showcasing different escorts before her decison to pause blogging for a while. Since she's returned, her writing has taken a differnt turn to be sure. But wouldn't anyone have undergone changes considering what she's gone through in the last few months?

Maybe it's Buffalo Bill wearing an Alexa suit.

Umm...Did I miss something here? How would this person know what you do or don't do? Do you hand them a contract which sets out the agreement? Do you discuss it ahead of time? I strongly believe you have a right to do with your body what you want but I think it is a bit presumptuous to think that every person you meet and conduct business will know your set parameters and recognize that there are different classes of "escorts".

Ouch Alexa, I am glad to hear you did what you did. You have every right to walk out if you are not comfortable. You also have every right to post what ever you want to. I personally have enjoyed the links, thank you.

Hmm, Greg from Louisville's post caught my eye...Greg come on! EVERONE in this day and age knows that unprotected sex is a bad idea, and not just with a paid escort! Just a casual fling with unprotected sex could be enough to kill you, so why on earth should anyone think for one second that someone in Alexa's line of work would EVER even consider it??? I suppose your the type f guy that expects just anyone you pick up to have sex with you and not use a condom???

Ta Ta~
WiPrincess
http://sexysblog.blogspot.com/

While it does seem that there is some small differences in the handling of the site I am unsure about a change of voice in the post. It seems similar to me, but often a little more rushed than it used to be. Perhaps she is just busy. As for Greg, well I have never personally had avalability to a woman who offers the companionship that Alexa does, but there are certain rules of etiquette to be observed. You wouldn't as this of a companion in this way who you just met in a bar. You would, and should, deal with this in much the same way. See where the moments take you and let your companion know what you like, NOT demand anything. Further more you should be more careful, you never know where your companion has been. As always this is just IMHO- Jeregano

I don't know what's going on with this blog, either, but something has definitely changed . . . I just can't put my finger on what. I'll keep checking in, but I'm not sure for how much longer. . . .

Sorry you had a bad client :-/ remember though that how he behaved towards you has nothing to do with who you are. He doesn't know you - how can it? OTOH, feeling rage in response to such situation usually derives in fact from a much earlier experience or experiences, as a child, where a parent did something quite wrong. A child's way of looking at a situation is very different to an adult's; in particular, the key difference is that children *know* adults are always right. This is for them a fact, and their emotional reaction to a situation is entirely distorted by it. So when an adult behaves very badly towards a child, the child *knows* the adult is right, and *therefore* the child must be bad enough to deserve that sort of treatment. Then, many years later, as an adult, we have a proper intellectual understanding of what actually happened and why it was wrong, but that intellectual knowledge hasn't made contact with the emotional legacy of the past. Accordingly, when someone behaves like your John did, we feel rage, because it exactly presses the button we now have, where our emotions continue to response as they did when we were a child but our adult minds profoundly reject being treated in that way - leading to conflict, pain, rage. When these issues are properly resolved, there is no emotional reaction to being treated in this way, because we simply know the other chap was wrong.

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Toby

You don't sell sex for money? Oh yeah, "companionship" and if it just so happens to lead to sex...

Yeah right.

Hearing about the guy pisses me off! How freaking rude of him and how dare him. I think he is probably some freaking idiot instead of incompetent vice cop. No condom? He doesn't mean bareback all the way, does he? Or is he just asking for a no condom blow job? Anyway you look at it, he is way out of line. Who the fuck does he think he is to step on the envelope to prevent you from picking it up and then make his demands. He should have asked what you're comfortable with politely at the beginning or something. You should have brough some pepper spray with you and sprayed the dude! Bleh...

I have reason to believe Alexa is a movie star, Come on she was gone for like 3 months, probably making a movie? All I have to do is list all the actors that were making movies the same time Alexa was not blogging! I figure there is about 5000 world wide give or take a few,. Or she is Yoko Ono because I email Yoko not long ago and said “Hey, John left me something in his will didn’t he?” But she never responded and days later I was off Alexa’s friends list, so there is a possibility Alexa is either John Lennon and he is not dead, or Yoko Ono. I am just saying this because I just have a gut feeling!! I am going to confirm it with Paul or Ring, I can’t ask George, unless I do that (EVP) Electronic Voice Phenomenon, then all he wants to do is sing, it pisses me off! But I swear to you people I will get to the bottom of this!! You know if you spell Alexa backwards it is Axela, that could be a clue??

Alexa sweetie it is your blog do what you want, it looks a little commercial but it is cool, only you know the reasons for what you do, you don’t have to explain it to anyone, they don’t have to read your blog if it bothers them so much, and for the people that love your blog and You, nothings changed.

Katiebird

The truth is they isn’t entrapment laws, a cop can even have sex with you and bust you after, just showing up in the hotel room is enough to get you arrested, you don’t even have to mention sex or money. You can get arrested for prostitution by using the same hotel to many times. Street prostitutes can be arrested the moment they step in the car. If a cop knows the prostitute and what she looks like you can be pulled over why’ll riding with a John doing nothing and be arrested, this is why prostitutes duck down when they see a cop. In the court of law in the case of prostitution or drugs it is more up to you to prove why you were there, and the bottom line is going to lead to you being a prostitute. But prostitution is only a misdemeanor. but the sad thing is the cops take all your money at the time of being arrested, this money you don’t get back unless you can prove where it legally came from! if not you just bought some cop a bullet proof vest, that is why they run stings! It is about the money in the courts and out.

You should of pick the money up and left, he had already gave it to you. If he was a cop it wouldn’t of even mattered you wouldn't of been allowed to leave, you would of been busted. And there is a lot of escorts/prostitutes that give oral sex without a condom, that is nothing new.

KatieBird

[quote]You know if you spell Alexa backwards it is Axela, that could be a clue??[/quote]

Clearly, that can only mean that she's secretly Axl Rose. You sick bastard, Axl! How dare you impersonate an escort just to fulfill your life now that you've been served with a lawsuit by Slash -- who *still* hates you -- and you have nothing better to do with your sad existance! Tisk, tisk to a former childhood hero. *tear* ;)

(I'm aware that there's no quote feature, peoples)

John’s a ballsack (without the nuts, he’s completely worthless).

To the Alexa critics, I say ‘Some good things take time to reveal themselves’. Maybe it is her, maybe it isn’t. I like the idea of not really knowing.

Cool.

I thought what I said was relatively insane, but clearly Katiebird has shown me how it's done.

Dante,

Your not even close to my insanity. But hey, it was meant to be stupid. It is the serious comments I question how sane they are. It is a blog nothing else some people need to be reminded.

Quack Quack!!

Katiebird

Just stumbled across this blog, probably wont return..just felt like adding that you work as a prostitute and you've only got yourself to blame if you end up in this kind of situation because if the guy has to ask these questions, you havent provided enough information beforehand, have you? You're a bit of an idiot, actually, to then mock him. You're also egocentric to believe a vice cop would really be attempting to sting a not very important prostitute (or any singular prostitute).

What puts you above the street whore you reference? Gucci tops?

Hey, it's John. Oh, don't think pulling the h out fools us. We know it's you.

Oh, and do you even know what a vice cop does? Clearly not.

Vice cop carries Vices, I'm clearly the only smart one here.

Did you keep the money?

The real issue, which hasn't been specifically articulated, is the manner of the asking of the request.

There's nothing wrong per se with his request; nothing wrong with *asking* if that service was given.

What was entirely improper was the manner of asking.

Such a question must be asked ahead of time (so that a negative answer, if it cancels the arrangement, doesn't cause a wasted trip) and in a polite manner.

It was asked at the time, in an extremely offensive manner. That's the issue, that the manner of asking clearly stated a total lack of respect and consideration.

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Toby

> if you end up in this kind of situation because
> if the guy has to ask these questions, you
> havent provided enough information beforehand,
> have you?

I'm not sure if this is a valid point. Certainly it would be desireable for the matter of what's on and what's not to have been sorted out beforehand, but I suspect there are dangers in such conversation because you never know exactly who you're talking to before you've met them.

However, it is actually irrelevent, since it avoids the main issue, which was the manner in which the punter asked his question.

It's also not that big a deal. If the punter had asked politely, he would have found out it wasn't on, and if he was okay with it, things still would have been okay and the evening would have proceeded. As it was, it seems to me A. left because the guy was a twat, not because of what was requested.

> You're a bit of an idiot, actually, to then mock > him.

No. His behaviour was deeply improper and very rude. You're avoiding or denying this, subconsciously or conconsiously, because it is obvious. This is also why you're being rude/spiteful in your post.

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Toby

Ugh what a creep. I'm glad that you got out of there alive and well. I don't want to come off as judgemental or anything, I'm just curious. If there is such a high risk of getting busted, meeting a psycho killer, contracting diseases, etc...why do you do it Alexa? If you really get "busted" then do you have the money to hire a lawyer? It just seems that its too risky and plenty of people have fallen from such a career. Do be careful and don't end up agreeing to long sessions with anyone you don't really know that well. Especially if they're a new client.