Or worse?

Or, say, a website about being a call girl? ;)

I dont know...I would've gone. I mean, you dont have to show your boobs. It's not like they hold a gun to your head, and say "Flash em' or die!" right?

But in the end, it is your decision...and plus, I'm sure that you're client had a better time one-on-one...

Having crossed paths with those guys more than once, I can say without a doubt you made the right decision. What these guys do borders on rape.

-G

So... you worry about future family finding out about flashing... but the fact you sleep with dozens of guys for money, that's no big deal?????

I want Girls Gone Wild On Fire. Like, they're about to flash their stuff when someone just shoots them with a flame thrower. Then they'll run around, drunked and on fire, and when they have to see their parents after college, they'll have to explain their Girls Gone Wild On Fire scar tissue. YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

“Can you just imagine your husband or children finding some Internet video of you baring your boobs? Or worse? :)”

If you’re worried about that you’re in the wrong business.

Plus you probably already have a sex tape or 2 and don’t even know it. You do realize what guys can hide spy cameras in now days.

If a guy can afford a high price escort – on come- he can afford video cameras and hide them. So chances are that future hubby or someone will be downloading file sharing porn titled “Whore in Hotel” and Bingo!! “Is that my wife with that black man!!”

All the education money can buy, and it still doesn’t buy common sense or street smarts, that you come by the hard way.

Haven’t heard from you lately, hope all is well baby

I find the sanctimonious, smug comments humorous. New York Escort is not so different from you and me. If we found her lifestyle so offensive, we wouldn’t take so much pleasure living vicariously through her. Although I will likely never use the services from someone in her profession, I still enjoy reading her stories and empathize with her need for discretion and privacy.

I don’t think anyone here is being “Sanctimonious” (I just love big words) to Alexa, Not at all. Her comments are set because she wants comments; good or bad. I don’t think she really cares as long as there not rude attacks upon her or her groupies.

If you haven’t figured it out yet, this is what she wants; good writing or bad it doesn’t matter it is all about comments and links. Which is cool because we each do are own thing with our own blogs.

But people disagreeing and questioning her in someway just because of the things she says or says she does in her blog isn’t being rude or Sanctimonious. It is just a opinion of a readers, and seeing someone jump to her defense in something she wants, makes lil sense.

I think the appropriate word here was not "sanctimonious" but "ironic".

It's interesting that some with sharp pens (or keyboards) are the same ones with the thin skins. It sort of reminds me of the Jerry Falwells, Rush Limbaughs et al., of the world who were so quick to condemn others and their lifestyles. Sanctimonious people give me the creeps, for they are usually the worst offenders.

Peace!

you know what's even worse? twits who infer 'rush limbaugh,' and 'jerry falwell' to hold up a weak argument. whatever it takes to support your own bogus sense of superiority eh? i'm surprised i didn't see the word 'nazi,' in there. sounds like brain entropy. cuz guess what -- there is irony in creating a website in which you 'secretly' confess all this funny escort stuff (which i sometimes adore), and then claim a fear, derived from a sense of propriety, of being associated with 'girls gone wild.' oh, the humanity of it all.

One would hope that any future husband of yours would be willing to accept your past. What kind of a soul-mate would he be if you have to hide your skeletons in the closet?

Alexa may need to give a crash course on Escorts 101 on the reasons why clients would not record encounters. Correct me if I'm wrong, Alexa, but most of your clients are married, high level business position, influential, weathly, and a combianation that would have difficulty with a release of a video of a session. The fear of repercussions usually prevents a client from taping the session. Those that do tape do so in a guarded manner and keep the tapes secure.

Now fore the life of me I cannot fathom why the Girls Gone Wild videos are so popular. I prefer really good porn to crappy videos of drunk girls who ony show their breasts.

Settle down tubbs. As far as twits are concerned, at least I can capitalize my sentences and use proper English.

The problem I have with the sanctimonious people is that they are very judgmental. Alexa has taken the proper precautions to ensure that her identity behind her web site remains confidential. Baring her breasts, however, on some video or television show is hardly confidential. Thus, equating confidentiality with her web site and a video is specious at best. Her identity behind her web site will remain confidential unless she chooses differently. She has no control over the distribution of a video. See the difference?

So when people make snide remarks about her web site or profession, they are being very judgmental and sanctimonious. They are so much better than she—at least in their own minds. Don’t you find it odd that their sense of strong moral superiority doesn’t prevent them from viewing her web site? Go figure.

I have said what I wanted to say. I am not interested in carrying this conversation further, for it will only force Alexa to close this thread.

I had an interesting conversation with an escort one time. She was very beautiful and said something to the effect that she wasn't going to be escorting much longer but was worried about making the kind of money she made as an escort. I asked her why she didn't dance (ie stripper). She was quite offended and said, "I am not an exhibitionist."

I was really quite surprised. It never occurred to me that different people would find various jobs in the sex trade offensive while performing one themselves. In my mind there was a hierarchy where a stripper working in a legitimate club would be less demeaned than someone selling sexual acts even as a high-class expensive prostitute.

Since then, I've dated both dancers and escorts and have become a lot less provincial in my view of sex workers (and women in general.) I no longer believe that women demean themselves as sex workers as long as it is their choice and to their financial benefit. I've come to loathe our puritanical American standards which actual demean women by limiting their lives through outdated patriarchal rules.

Yoggie, MOST is not all. Most is not even almost all. Even if only 5% of a call girl's clients are not married, that leaves several people who may very well want to tape the session. Bottom line is in 2005 you simply cannot assume that you are not being taped no matter where you are. Whether it is video taped with a cell phone, or audio taped with a device no bigger than a golf pencil, and costing less than $25, chances are someone in any situation you are in has the means to do it, and therefore just needs to desire.

Chances are there are even web sites dedicated to secret tapes of call girl encounters.