Alexa...

I stumbled in just after you happened to post this... You crack me up :) - This "reader" is just rediculous.. You do not have anything to prove to anyone.. especially in the blog-o-world.. Groove on, girl..

The world would be a much nicer place if everybody stepped back a little bit and stopped hiding themselves behind religion. Admit themselves that they aren't perfect, examine their own flaws, and only then let themselves judge other people. I think then the judging would be a lot milder and more rational.

Being religious should not cancel all your flaws, but for some strange reason people that are really religious tend to think so. Sad!

The only way to respond to morons on the Internet is by not responding. Otherwise you bring yourself down to their level.

Besides, anyone who is truly religious would know better, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone." And how stupid is "Ho Hater" for a pen-name?

My guess is that that message is the impersonation of a religious fanatic, instead of an actual religious fanatic themselves. Trolling. Just looking to see if they could get a reaction. ;)

just ridicolous ...
dont let this touch u (in your head, mind, heart)

regards,
fred

That's got to be the worse hate mail I’ve ever read and you addressed it, not only addressed it but my God you took some time to really explain yourself. Shame on you!

Consider yourself a lucky girl for that person’s lame attempt in the hate department. Just delete it with a smile. "Ho Hater" I would of laughed just at that!

As a veteran blogger, I can tell you that responding to the hate comments just leads them to continue posting hate comments. The best thing to do is to ignore them and delete their comments. They usually are just trolls looking for a reaction and trying to start a flame war.

But you did make a good post.

But does that preclude me from kneeling before you naked and asking you for mercy for "spilling my seed"? ;)

I am always amazing at the people that say they are disgusted by something and spend as much time as they do on it. I think they are just feeling guilty that where turned on by you. I know you turn me on, you naughty gurl!! Now I am feeling naughty. Who spanks whom first? ROCK ON!!!

I liked Alexa's response. It was highly entertaining, and had great truth behind it. If the purpose of a blog is at least partially to provide entertainment - then you've succeeded with me, Alexa!

I read that hater's lines and simply think: "Moron".

DAMN, ALEXA...LOOKS LIKE YOU TOLD HER!!!

There's one great reply to give to these fanatic freaks that usually does the job, and it's only 5 syllables, so you get the satisfaction of not having to put much effort into it.

Mary Magdalene.

Usually, they will either shut right up or go into a frothy foamy rant. Either way, it's great entertainment.

Nice response, Alexa!

Great response! Beautiful!

Brilliant Alexa brilliant....

I admit that when I get a hater, I get a malicious pleasure out of searching through my comments, looking for their ip address. You'd be surprised at how many times they will visit a sinful website.

Even worse, I check my logs for the ip address, and it amazes me how many times they will come back to the comment page to see what people had to say about their comment.

You go, girl! I'm with you 100%. I think that absolutist positions are the cause of most of the world's troubles and that religion, mostly misapplied, is usually the justification.

Only one absolute statement is true (excluding the last few words): All cats are black at night. Other than that it's all gray baby...

Excellent reply, Alexa. Score yet another point for the ho. Keep up the good work.

Some people just have no imagination nor a life. Jealousy exists in all forms, and that's what is eating away at them.

More power to you for creating this site. We all have an inner exhibitionist. Although...I'd say that I have an inner lesbian in me.

I love you Alexa. That is quite possibly the best response you can give a zealot. It was noble of you not to stoop to his/her level.

Alexa, you rock. Come visit the west coast some time. B^)

from your reply it seems to me that you know this person. is it someone you know from chuch?
i'm confused now

what i find interesting is that were you a GUY, you wouldn't be getting an email like that. you'd get emails like "YEAH!!" and "dude, that girl sounds HOT!"

i ran into the whole "you're a slut" thing when i was actively dating (o.k., having an active sex life and wasn't being paid for it). it's frustrating to know that in men, my behaviour would be applauded.

Alexa,
That was an awesome rebuttal! Your turning points were very... well let's just say TURNING something there.

I have to agree with Cyn. Check the IP address for that mope. I am often tempted to post it for all to see and/or their email address - if they were stand up enough to provide one.

Religion is the root of almost all bloodshed throughout history. The concept of religion is unfortunately the greatest scam mankind has ever fallen for.

Well of course Alexa is a slut, she's a call girl for god sakes. I think being a bit of a slut is a job requirement in the field. But is it really hurting "Ho Hater" at all?

You're a bloody good writer for a slut. Shove it up the damned hypocrites, they annoy me immensely. The log in the eye thing is a much-ignored tenet of Jesus' teachings.

"If, however, you mean someone who wantonly hurts others, then I am absolutely not."

Liar! You were hurt when your father cheated on your mother, yet you turn adultery into a career. As you know, many of these men are married. Some have daughters, too. Exactly what your father did to you is what you might be facilitating every day.

Hi, I have read your blog and linked to it for quite a while but not yet felt the need to comment, until now.

I am a Christian, and would like to apologise for any extremist religious nuts that leave you negative comments like the one above. It seems clear to me that Jesus' primary objective on earth was to love and accept everybody that he met, not condemn them for the way they live their lives.

There's not much more that I can say. I am deeply saddened that some Christians feel the need to portray Jesus as a judgmental freak, when in actual fact he was the most accepting human who has ever lived.

Please accept my apology on behalf of all the Christian weirdos who visit your blog.

Sam

Trully agree with you, religion doesnt automaticly mean ur a good person...its who u ar and wut u do that determines that. Good on u Alexa

Alexa,

He's probably a pimply-faced loser who lives in his mom's basement and can't get it up.

Then again, something tells me you know that already (the last lines of your post in particular).

Kiss Kiss.

Ha! Good job Alexa! *dances*

Sam, thank you for saying what I have said for years. Alexa I love how you can throw the Bible right back at these people and get to the true message. Never stop being yourself!

What an asshole... no one deserves AIDS and you can tell this person was someone who was probably in the teen age category or some closed minded sex deprived Christian!

W.r.t. Jason's comments, I'd guess teenager. Can't get laid, can't afford an escort. As for 2aquit's comment, most men probably don't even need to pay an escort to commit adultery. Secretaries, neighbours, colleagues, the sister-in-law, the girl from the copy shop, the girl from the cafe, the girl from the bar last night, some men would leave their wives for the next thing that comes along in a skirt. At the end of the day, the man is still to blame in my book.

Some people hate themselves and how they are forced to be that they can do nothing but take their misery out on someone they do not know. It's pathetic. Good for you for countering with a well thought out response. While I'm sure it won't do any good as people with such hatred in their souls are deaf and blind to rational arguments it only shows how much better a person you are to not simply stooped to her/his level and countered with an Angry "FUCK YOU ASSHOLE" as they most likley expected from you, not realizing that perhaps you could be an intelligent person with a mind and an education since thier own small mind and uneducated mind won't let them believe that.

You are an excellent writer, Alexa. I wish I could tell off the people that send me hate mail. And I agree with Cyn - the ones the criticize you the most, are the biggest fans that check your blog daily.

All i can say is that is a great response.
You're the reason i have boners when i sleep

Wow, great response. Alexa, I just want to say this website keeps me going on these boring days at sea. Keep it up.

For a complete overview of The Crusades, have a look at this-

http://knifey-knifeyard.blogspot.com/2004/10/revisionist-history-lesson-crusades.html

Alexa, they're like ants at a picnic, aren't they?

Would you like to touch my penis?

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.

Well said Alexa. I knew there was a reason I like hangin' with honest and free-thinking people instead of the self-imposed narrow-mindedness of the brimstone crowd. All they have to offer is fear and divisiveness, not ideas or possibilities.

Well said Alexa.

Brains and Looks huh... brilliant combination, Excellent reply Alexa

the answer to hate is...well, not hate, and even though some readers may find alexa's reply to be entertaining, its after all ment to be an inquisition. she needed to do that, and my luv' did it with elen. Dont expect you to reply to every ho hater's out there, but since i have always belived that this blogging stuff is all abt being honest, with no hangups, no explanations to anyone other then writing for the moment....writing your understanding of things, is all alaxa's doing. I'm your man alaxa...anytime.