well you also need to set some rules about wether or not you want a be in a sandwidch(thats what they call it here) thats when one man is in your vagina and one is in you butt hole at the same time, if your gonna do that DO NOT ALLOW THEM TO SWAP PLACES WITH OUT CHANGING CONDOMS, i mean the one who is in the back door MUST CHANGE CONDOMS befor you do anything else with him

i second the above. any time you're switching from the back to the front you need to take some extra precautions... not because it's nasty, but because it's dirty. it's a matter of sanitation.

which makes me wonder about something else... has anyone here ever actually used a dental dam? every once in a while i'll hear them mentioned, but even if I wanted one I'm not sure where I'd be able to get it.

After your rules are set, I am sure the men will abide by them, my wife gave me the pleasure of a
FFM threesome and it was totally awesome...Then she wanted a MMF threesome, how could I say no.

All I can tell you is that after over 2 hours she was totally exhausted and fully satisfied..
As with me she said there is nothing like four hands roaming your body, two mouths all over your body, and two men filling her mouth and her pussy...you will love it....enjoy and tell us how it came out.

Len

I had a three-way with two guys once (of course, it was a homo-fest so probably different), and it turned out to be the worst thing I've ever done. I was incredibly drunk, and everyone got really jealous and miffed at each other, and I ended up breaking up what was once a good friendship between the other two guys. So yeah, trust and emotional distance are both necessary things to have.

Ow. You make my head gehurten.

'Kay. Egregious spelling errors and grammaticals aside, point taken on the anal-vaginal switcheroo. Think yeast infection, but with anal bacteria, and you may have problems eating cottage cheese for a while without getting reminded of personal problems in the Deep South.

The thing is, most introductions into the art form of poly play are "Wooo wooo, won't this be NEAT!" without careful consideration of the intent of the parties involved. The introduction of threesome needs to be handled tactfully - and that's not something that can be done while horny as hell. Right when you come? Not the best time to bring it up. On a fishing trip with your parents? Again, might want to reconsider the conversation's timing.

However, if it's something that does happen and you've both thought it through entirely, it's very much like dating all over again - except multiply the difficulty times two, since being attracted to one person is often enough of a number roll.

The point of all this is, if you find someone whom you're attracted to whom you would enjoy sharing your partner, treat them like you would any other potential partner.

Scope their asses up and down and make sure they're not hiding any CIA spook gear up their rear ends, that they're suitably discreet, and that their family won't miss them if they screw up and you have to bury the corpse in the middle of the Nevada desert.

Oh, and it's often polite to say upfront your expectations and limits on personal and sexual event horizons.

Hmmm... Haven't you guys ever had a really thorough douche, been fucked in the ass, pulled out and then sucked on the cock, knowing that it's as clean as a whistle?

Just asking, y'know.

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Hmmm... Haven't you guys ever had a really thorough douche, been fucked in the ass, pulled out and then sucked on the cock, knowing that it's as clean as a whistle?

Just asking, y'know.
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when they do it on pornos, the stars first have special operations to remove the skin from arround the anus, to i think they also clean the insides...the fact is she could get a illness from anal to mouth or anywhere else

"Special operations to remove the skin from around the anus"?

Now THIS sounds interesting. And also a little suspicious. What, in God's name, are you talking about? Please elaborate, providing references where possible...

Hemorroid removal? LOL!

Argh! Post are following me from Just One Bite! Argh!

some people definitely have surefire recipies for fun it would seem....

Alexa,

I'd love to submit an entry to your Carnival of Sin...but don't know how to link to your blog! Sorry, I'm pretty clueless about that stuff. I've actually mentioned your blog in one of my entries (see Sexual Attraction: It's All In How You Feel).

If you could offer any pointers or let me know where I can read up on how to do this, it'd be much appreciated. Of course, I know it's asking a lot so I'd totally understand if you can't. Either way, keep up the good writing. Your blog brings a smile to my face every day.

Diane

On the ATM scenes, I don't know what operation Ausi was referring to (and it sounds highly unlikely), but the girls do quite often indulge in weeks worth of antibiotics around filming.

Bwhahaha. Personally I think having the skin torn off your anus would be worse than any infection you could catch. They probably just recieve a high-pressure enema or something right before. *shudder*

my girlfriend wanted to have a 3some and I said no. does that make me gay? :-o

go figure the loud mouth trash talking man slut Evan has a thing for monogamy!

since MY carnival of sin entry was about a MMF threesome, i thought i'd add my 2 cents'.

really, there is nothing to worry about once the initial rules are SET. go over the rules before you all begin, and then settle down for an amazingly fun ride.

the only major thing to worry about, aside from losing an errant condom or one breaking, is if the guys are into EACH OTHER. while this has never happened, to me, just make sure they're not playing for the 'same team.'

i've had quite a number of MMF 3somes with a variety if different men, and i would have to say get ready for the ride of your life. this is the one experience i would encourage ALL women to do ... even if you have to separate from your spouse to accomplish. amazing. fabulous. if i could get one per week, i'd give every penny i make to charity until the day i die. ;)

well, just to weigh in on the "no one planned it but it worked out ok" front...

my best pal came out to visit me on weekend. we went to the pub, talked to a couple of girls. one fancied my pal, so she can back to my place with us. i figured i was for the couch, but she came out and asked me to join them. now, i love my boyo, but not like that, so we stayed on opposite ends of the young lady. as far as i could tell, fun was had by all. no horrible recriminations, or scenes, or people running from the room.

my point is, it doesn't necessarily have to be hammered out by lawyers before hand. all that's really required is a little reasonableness.

As always, Alexa, I love entering your 'secret garden'. And you have some great threads.

I just found this thread after posting about my 1st 3some. The 2nd time it's happened with your blog! I like that!
The 3some thing, to me personally, seems alot of complication about something that came naturally to me unimpeded by words. But now I have words for sex I like '3some' better than 'threesome'. Like your rebel grammar there.

A male buddy of mine and I used to cruise for ladies wanting a "double" on neighborhood and city-wide "phone lines." About 3 times per year, we'd end up with a real pleasure craver. We are both straight and not into each other at all. But we were both voyeurs.

You know these chat lines---the ones where you listen to women's ads for dates/boyfriend/casual hook-up's---after qualifying candidates, we'd connect live with the talker. In about 1 out of 10 calls you'll find a girl who can be chatted up and encouraged to fantasize again. We'd ask her, "what about four hot hands, two curious mouths and two thick, large penises all over your body?"

Then again, you may meet with a 21 year old girl who's dad is a pizza delivery man. There, at his apartment (where dad lived,) and with him out delivering pizzas, we only wanted to dildo-ize his daughter. I didn't trust the hygiene---no time for a shower. Truth be told, as I was grooving this girl's G-spot with a big heavy dildo, the chick pissed on me. All that time, when I was working her over, she was talking dirty to a man on said chatline.
Then she showed us immediatley out because dad had called and was on his way home.

We'd talk a little dirty to them on the chat line and exchange phone numbers. Every one of them we met and took back to my place. A little wine and talking to the nervous girls always helped. Soon, with everyone in the room knowing what would happen next, the kissing began and the penis(es) were in her mouth. We did everything to her. I particularly enjoy face fucking and bending her legs up just the way I like when I want to administer a heavy pounding. . .